Relationships and Why is it so Complex

Hi buns,

Today will not be me talking. Rather, it is time to invite another guest to our blog. Lets us put our crust together to give our warm welcome to our guest. He is an expert in relationships. His name is Mr Sausage Craze Baked Rice. He has a PHD in Relationships Studies.

Hi all. I am Mr Sausage Craze Baked Rice as introduced earlier. Today i would like to talk about relationships.

Okay, we all know how relationships are formed. Now the problem that all couples face is how to maintain the relationship. It is hard i know. I personally went through a relationship before.

Okay, basically it is about respecting each other, giving each other personal space, understanding each other, and also to give in to each other.

Lets us begin with giving each other personal space. Everyone needs their own personal space. So the simplest way is to understand to what extent is each other personal space and then follow it. Simple right? Good.

Now for the part on understanding. Some people always claim that they know their partner very well. Sometimes, people can feel otherwise and behave not their usual self. There is nothing wrong. I feel that it is best to talk it out. Should there be any differences, sort it out. Talk it out. It is better than keeping it in the dark. Let each other know how you feel.

Lets us move on to the giving in part. For guys, be prepared to give in more. It is just a fact. Even though your partner may be staying a distance away, give her a visit. If not adopt my style. Meet somewhere in the middle whereby both parties need to travel. This way it will be fairer. It is up to each couple how they want to arrange. Girls also need to give in at times too. Be understanding.

Now is a comment that is usually being said. "Do so much for what? Got use meh?" Now, it is common for people to say that to each other. How about couples? It happens too. So how? It is best to explain to your partner. The use of spending so much effort on something shows the importance it means to you. So be more encouraging and positive in your comments. It is hard to balance life, commitments and interests.

Most relationships break up when the Guy goes into NS. This is because the guy does not meet the girl, does not really spend time with her, etc. Basically it is due to the little time that the guy has when he is not in Tekong. He may be tired after all that training and just want to rest at home. Then the girl will be worried. Why the guy never come visit her. Even worst is that the girl stays a distance away. So how?

Simple solution. Surprised? Yes it is. Before the guy goes into NS, he should discuss with the girl 1st. Discuss what? Discuss when to meet, how often, need to pick the guy up or not, how long to meet, personal time for oneself, resting time, time need to spend with friends, etc. Just discuss all the potential areas whereby conflict may arise.

Oh yes. Also discuss how often to call each other and how long can talk? It would be good to know the background info of NS life inside before going in. Like the resting time, talking time, sleeping hours, etc.

Then, most importantly, it is to understand each other. Sometimes, one party or even both party may be in a bad mood, have a bad day, etc. Do not sound sian or bored. Use a normal tone to talk. Then let your partner know how you are feeling. Also find out what your partner is feeling.

In this case, understanding each other is important. Trust is another thing. You have to trust your partner and vice-verse.

By doing this then you can maintain the relationship. Also, the NS period also test out how strong a relationship is. Only strong and deep relationships will survive. Trust me on that.

Okay, now is the time for Q&A again. Anyone has any questions? Or perhaps any readers have any question? Feel free to ask me or drop me a call at my Hp. Or you may want to email me or leave a comment behind behind. I will gladly answer all questions? How about you buns? Any questions?

Nope. Then i shall go then. I have an appointment to attend to. I do have customers asking me for professional advice on a 1 to 1 basis. That is where i am going now. Thank you all for your time. Bye.

Now, let us thank Mr Sausage Craze Baked Rice once again.

I always like to say this. Always believe in yourself. It is very important. You will know it soon enough. Okay. That is all for now.

Bye Bye.

Yours Sincerely,
Doraemon